Showing our support for our families of the week..
This is Ana for the Nemes family:
This is Milos for the Stolz family:



This is Ana for the Nemes family:
This is Milos for the Stolz family:

Showing our support for our families of the week..
I am sorry this is late. With it being Thanksgiving, the week got away from me. :)
A common concern of parents adopting internationally is adopting a child with FAS [Fetal Alcohol syndrome], also known as Alcohol-related neuro development disorder.
Facts about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome
Fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) is a set of physical and mental birth defects that can result when a woman drinks alcohol during her pregnancy. When a pregnant woman drinks alcohol, such as beer, wine, or mixed drinks, so does her baby. Alcohol passes through the placenta right into the developing baby. The baby may suffer lifelong damage as a result. Read more here.
Contrary to popular belief there is no SAFE amount of alcohol consumption during pregnancy. Though the effects of alcohol on a developing fetus are still being studied, and there is much that is not known, there is a lot of good information out there. One of the best resources I have found is the book," Damaged Angels", by Bonnie Buxton. She talks of her daughter with FAS and what her journey has been like.
Another good resource is FASlink. There are so many resources out there. An important thing to remember is that FAS is NOT a death sentence. There are all kinds of degrees of struggles with FAS, and there IS help!
Many children are listed on Reeces Rainbow with FAS. Please take the time to pray for them and if you feel a familiar tug that often happens in teh heart of adoptive parents, consider them becoming a part of your family!
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, aka ARND

"Being a sensible 41 year old, I told Lydia she would never be able to raise $20,000.00 in 8 days.....she is only eleven. She didn't hear me. Instead, she asked again, "But if I do raise the money, will you adopt her?" I responded yes, if she raised that much money in 8 days, we would know God is in it and would travel to adopt Darya!"Darya's Hope was born. Eight days before Thanksgiving. Eight days to help God send a miracle. Eight days to raise $20,000.
$28,000 And Still Counting!
You would think once Lydia announced she had raised OVER her $20,000.00 goal, people would stop giving and just celebrate. At least, in my human nature, that's what I thought.
WRONG!!!
Since yesterday, $2,000.00 more dollars have come in. I am blown away by the generosity. When families learned that Lydia is now raising money to help another family adopt a little one who has Down Syndrome in Eastern Europe, they jumped in and have joined her. Amazing. Well, it is just a miracle, don't you think?
Can you believe it has been suggested several times that Lydia start a ministry called:
"100 FOR 200"
WHAT? An eleven year old leading a ministry effort? I am hesitant to say I doubt anything anymore, so I'll be careful not to voice my doubts and fears.
The ministry would be to gather 200 believers who will commit to donating $100.00 each month through 2010 in order to fund 12 special needs adoptions and save 12 orphans. Lydia would provide a picture of the child each month, details that are known about the child, and fund the adoption. Sounds simple? Yes, unless you are the mother of the daughter who is on a path to save the world. I keep thinking to myself: "she is only eleven."
So, stay tuned and let's see what God is going to do. Lydia keeps saying: "With God, nothing is impossible". All smiles....continuing to skip through the house with Hope in tow right behind her.

Friday Focus on Down Syndrome - Darya's Hope
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Boy, Born November 19, 2005
He just turned 5 years!
I have $4000in my grant fund towards the cost of my adoption!
Read more...Angel of the week
What a blessing it is to have family!! What an honor God's given us to be able to extend our hearts and add to our families. I'm ever so thankful for my Isaac & I can't wait to see where God will take our family next & who He may add to it :) These 2 families are getting ready to multiply :) May we be able to be a blessing to them with our gifts of love.
Paul & Jean Briggs have been one of our families in the past, but I wanted to extend the invite to help them out again. They've been waiting along time for these two angels to come home! With 22 siblings all waiting for them to come home money has got to be really tight this time of year :)
Donovan & Diana for the Briggs family:



As One We Can..Thankful For These Families

So it has been a whole MONTH since I returned from 2009 Buddy Cruise. This was my first trip, and I have to say it was amazing! Not only was it a relaxing and enjoyable cruise, but I had an opportunity to share Reece's Rainbow in person for the first time. I debated long and hard about bringing Reece with me, but in the end, was concerned that he would be overwhelmed and unhappy the whole trip. So I took my younger, typical son Owen...should have made him a t-shirt that said "NO, I am not Reece!"...because everyone who saw us said "it's Reece!" lol This was a wonderful time of fellowship, education, and making new friends in the Down syndrome community. There were families from all over the country and the world on board, even several adoptive families. I got to meet several well-known folks, like Emily Perl Kinglsey (writer for Seseame Street and author of "Welcome to Holland"). Sujeet Desai, the amazing musician and self advocate was also there with his family. All of the presenters were wonderful, relevant, and HUMAN :) They are all just moms and dads of children with Down syndrome who are passionate about advocacy, improving the world for their children and others like them, and focused on changing the way the world sees and includes our children. We talked about hearing problems, speech and language education, medical complications, estate planning and future trusts for our kids with special needs, adults with down syndrome, and of course the adoption and rescue part!....just about everything, it was very educational!
What I liked most about the Buddy Cruise was the length of time it gave all of us (5 days of sun and fun!) to meet and spend time with each other in an extended, casual, social setting. It wasn't just a warehouse full of thousands of people milling booths and picking up brochures. We had many scheduled presentations and events, but plenty of individual time on board, time to get off the ship and do your own excursions, and time to have some coffee with a new friend on deck 4 ;) It was a special time to come together with other folks you didn't know and enjoy yourself. Great opportunityt o make life-ling friends and network with each other. I highly recommend this cruise for any other families, no matter how many kids you have. All of us on the cruise...we're all aware of each other's behavioral struggles. We don't have to worry about what others think when my child goes tearing down the hallway ;) I was worried Reece might try to climb the rail while I wasn't looking, but now I know there were so many experienced DS parents there, I would have had about 30 built-in babysitters ;) All of the kids who attended, regardless of age, bonded with each other and really seemed to appreciate the opportunity to share in a trip like this! And even my Owen, who does noth ave Down syndrome, found himself bonding with several others (Anthony Murphy and Pierce and Joshua Hays, to name a few!), to whom he would proudly say "my brother has Down syndrome too!"
We will definitely be going again in 2010, ALL of us, Reece included! It is going to be held in conjunction with the NDSC Convention in Orlando, Fl July 16-18. www.buddycruise.org The cruise leaves Monday the 19th, and returns the 23rd. It promises to be another awesome trip, so I hope all of you who are hoping to come to the convention will save up your duckets and book a room on board the Buddy Cruise too! There are tons of supervised, curriculum-based activities for the children, INCLUDING OURS, so don't hesitate!
The Buddy Cruise is also a registered 501c3 organization, and just like Reece's Rainbow, relies heavily on donations to provide quality educational programs and a special yearly cruise event! Reece's Rainbow was deeemd not eligible for the new Chase $5 Million Giveaway on Facebook because our focus is international. But the Buddy Cruise IS eligible, so you can still support the adoptive families of RR by voting for the Buddy Cruise in this online project. 
So...about that Buddy Cruise!
Adopting an older child presents some unique challenges, but can also have unique rewards. One family has found joy in the adoption of older children. Read some of their story here.
"Families who are willing to adopt any child, particularly an older child, need to accept the child for who they are, helping them grow into successful competent adults," says Collins. "They need to accept and understand that child's sense of loss and need to heal. They need to be persistent and strong advocates for those children."
On a personal note: When our son, James, came to live with us 2 years ago at the age of 7, we did not expect him to stay. It was a temporary situation. Now his adoption will be final on Dec. 1st.Read more...
I still remember the first week he was here. He slept on one couch and I slept on the other. He was scared to sleep in his room. I never dreamed that those nights of talking for a few minutes before he fell asleep would be the equivalent, in my mind, of the time spent with my newborn in the hospital. But that is exactly what they are. Treasured moments of bonding, and being just what MY child needed.
It has taken a while, but he inhabits the place in my heart that my biological children do. It took prayer. It took discipline [for me, not him], and it took conviction of my belief that "Every child deserves to hold a place in someones heart where if need be, that person would walk through a fire to get to them!"
I weep for the baby he was, the one I will never know. I love babies, everything about them! But....
A child is only a baby for a short while, but they are a human being in need of a family forever!
The Older Child
Friday Focus on Down Syndrome - She Can. She Did!

Angel of the week


Angel Tree ornament shipment has begun!
ANNA and TANNER can be adopted together, and with their combined grants of $10,000, the facilitation fee is nearly completely paid for! (only shy by $500)
All of these children are in the same country, requirements listed below:
Married couples only may apply
No more than 45 years between at least one parent and child
(one older parent OK)
No stated family size restrictions
Total with travel approx $24k
Both parents for 2 1/2 weeks to attend court
Both parents return home for 3 weeks, and only one must return to complete the adoption for approx 10 days
No history of mental health conditions or infectious diseases
May adopt multiple unrelated children
Interested families should read carefully through http://www.reecesrainbow.org/newfamily.html to determine their eligibility and financial preparedness to adopt internationally.
Serious inquiries and commitments for any of these children can be directed to Andrea.
BLESSINGS raining down!
I have always had a desire to adopt a blind child. Admittedly, when we took that first step and committed to adopting a little girl who is blind we knew very little. I have found this site to be most helpful.
It is full of great articles not only on blind children, but ideas for other disabilities as well. I have been reading a lot about orientation and mobility, something that the little girl we are adopting has not had any focus or help on. Here is a good article to start with.
Orientation and Mobility
Did you know that it's never too early to begin teaching your blind baby orientation and mobility skills? Even if your blind infant is barely holding up her own head, let alone moving anywhere on her own, orientation and mobility is still a key factor to future independence and many of the basic teachings can begin as early as infancy.
Blindness....

Usually, we all get silly nervous about Friday the 13th. But so far, THIS Friday the 13th has turned out to be an incredible day. So I had to blog about it!
First, we got confirmation of a committed family for Lera in Russia.
Then TATYA in Ukraine finds her family.
Then LILYA in Ukraine finds her family.
And the most amazing thing...little Timosha's (in Russia) birth family, who I have built a lovely personal relationship with, has decided to take their most loved son home with them.
Every child Reece's Rainbow has had the honor of serving, every child saved has beena reason to rejoice! But for a birth family to be so moved, to see new light and have renewed hope and faith in their Savior and His plans for their family through His gift of their child with Down syndrome...that is a true VICTORY! That is when I am the most moved, and I wanted to share this most joyous news with the world ;)
The message from Timosha's mother, who has also committed to serve the other children with down syndrome in his orphanage, and to help us get new photos and find families for them!:
"Andrea, I thank you for your prayers. Yesterday my husband has told that we will take away Timosha home!!!!!!! Since Monday we will start to make all papers. Also I hope that Christmas we will meet all together. I yet don't know, what will be our life, but I trust the Lord and I believe that with the Divine help at all of us it will turn out. All not casually also can children from our region can find family. I will do the utmost to update photos of other children. This smallest that I can make for them. I thank you, Andrea and if the help which I in forces to render is necessary to you, I will make it with pleasure."
This is why we do what we do!
Andrea Roberts, Executive Director
Reece's Rainbow
bamaroberts@comcast.net
Friday the 13th
Well this is perhaps one of the best posts I could be so privileged to make.
This past week has seen a flurry of blogs and emails posting about a little girl named Lera! As you can see by her photos, she is a gorgeous little girl full of LIFE! She lives in an orphanage in Russia, presently.

But her time was literally drawing to a close THIS WEEK. Without a family committing to her able to move forward quickly with an adoption in Russia her fate would be sealed. Life in a Russian mental institution that does NOT allow adoptions.
Andrea asked people to help and within a couple of days her grant grew from $1000 to $5000 but still she needed a family. The people able to donate the money to her adoption grant were not able to adopt her but thankfully because of that grant another family is!


So, the wonderful news is that Lera has a family! Now that she has that official commitment she will be spared from the transfer to the institution. Her new family were not the ones to bring her into this world, but indeed they are the ones who will be giving her LIFE!

This is a perfect example of how Reece's Rainbow and all of you work. There are families ready and willing; qualified and able to adopt a child with Down Syndrome. Families that share the passion to bring these children home and give them life. The only thing standing in their way are the costs of the international adoption.
The Christmas Angel Tree Project is the biggest fund raising event of the year for Reece's Rainbow and many families find their children through seeing them on the Waiting Angels page.
Lera is a gorgeous and lovely example of how important your donations to these children are! Without her grant, her new family may not have been able to commit to her adoption but because of it, Lera is going to be given the most amazing Christmas gift any orphan could ever hope for, or even know to hope for!
Please, also watch our Official Ministry Video and feel free to share it on your own blogs.



We Were ALL Orphans Before that First Christmas...
Well, I could hardly do a Friday Focus this week without it being somehow related to Sesame Street could I? If you have been using Google's homepage or reading the Reece's Rainbow blog, you already know what I'm talking about.
This woman's name is Emily Perl Kingsley. In 1974 she had a son, she named him Jason. Soon after Jason Kingsley was born, a doctor recommended that his mother institutionalise him and tell her friends that he had died in childbirth. Jason, the doctor predicted, would "never read or write or have a single meaningful thought or idea," he has Down Syndrome, you see. Well, he most certainly is able to walk and talk and he has plenty of meaningful thoughts and ideas AND has also written a book! Friday Focus on Down Syndrome - Brought to You by the Letter E



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